Liaocheng married parents back bride loan-tataufo

Liaocheng married parents back loan betrothal marriage is a major event in life, should pay more attention to but not change the taste. (data sheet) of the married life in a big event, but in rural areas, to get at the wedding the bride price, many families have become the "sweet burden". The reporter learned that, in recent years Liaocheng cailiqian rise, a year, the highest reached more than 280 thousand, many families on the back of the heavy debt. The same is the "66 six thousand and six hundred sixty-six thousand" Dashun "thanks to my kids get married early, if it really can not afford to marry." Liaocheng Shenxian toward the town villagers Liu told reporters that her two sons have been married in 2011, 2012, the boss of the dowry money is eleven thousand, after more than a year, the second cailiqian rose to sixty-six thousand. The reporter learned that, in some rural areas of Liaocheng, cailiqian rise, variety. "Around 2009 bride price in 6600 yuan, commonly known as the 66 Dashun; 2011 rose to 11000 yuan or 17000 yuan, commonly known as the one in a million or seven; 2012, 2013, the dowry money has risen to sixty-six thousand, or 66 Dashun, but three years ago, 10 times……" Ms. Liu told reporters that since then, the dowry money rose higher and higher. "My neighbor’s daughter was married by the end of 2013, gave her a riot of colour a green, 150 thousand." At that time, the village was very envious, all said that after marrying the girl will follow this standard, did not expect a year later, prices went up. Now there is no saying what, in short is better, in addition to the dowry money, but also "move a real", namely house and car." Shenxian Zhang Zhai Zhen Hao gave reporters a bride account. Small meeting 17000 yuan, small to meet both men and women and parents consent, then sending the man to 110 thousand, meaning perfect in every respect. Then enter the meeting process, the man will give the woman to send 66000 yuan, in addition, will give the woman the laws "send Douer", there are Roasted Chicken tobacco sugar tea and other items, each Douer yuan in 500, the light value of tobacco and sugar tea also have nearly a million. When he got married, he would buy a new furniture feast, these have a total of three fifty thousand, down, do not spend about 200000 really not married daughter-in-law. "With the house and the car, it’s scary to think about." "The couple" to get engaged since the dowry money people of Liaocheng Xiao Xu and small high also encountered trouble. Xiao Xu and small plateau is free love, Xu home in Liaocheng City, Yanggu is a small high rural people, two people ready to get engaged, but the bride price money is out of the question. Originally Xiao Xu home only sixty-six thousand, but the small Gao insisted 150 thousand, two young people sandwiched in the middle is very difficult. "My father-in-law mother-in-law in Liaocheng to work, we bought a house in Liaocheng, then take this colorful gift money is difficult, but my parents said to marry the girl is a lifetime event, can not be looked down upon, now 15 million price in the village is the least, in fact, parents also is for the girl well, these will give us the dowry money after all." Xiao gao. Helpless, two"

聊城儿子娶媳妇 父母背上彩礼贷 结婚是人生的一件大事, 理应重视但不能变了味。 (资料片)   结婚本是人生中的一大喜事,但目前在农村,娶亲要拿高价彩礼,已成为不少家庭的“甜蜜负担”。记者了解到,近几年来聊城的彩礼钱水涨船高,一年高过一年,最高的已达28万多,不少家庭因此背上沉重债务。   同是“六六大顺”   六千六变六万六   “幸亏我家孩子结婚早,要是现在还真娶不起。”聊城莘县朝城镇的村民刘女士告诉记者,她家两个儿子,已于2011年、2012年结了婚,老大的彩礼钱是一万一,过了一年多,老二的彩礼钱就涨到了六万六。   记者了解到,在聊城的一些农村,彩礼钱水涨船高,花样繁多。“2009年左右彩礼钱在6600元左右,俗称六六大顺;2011年涨到了11000元或17000元,俗称万里挑一或万里挑七;2012年、2013年左右,彩礼钱又涨到了六万六,还是叫六六大顺,但是三年前的10倍……”刘女士告诉记者,自此之后,彩礼钱越涨越高。“我邻居的闺女是2013年年底结的婚,婆家给了万紫千红一片绿,即15万。”当时村里都很羡慕,都说以后嫁闺女就要照着这个标准,没想到一年后价格又涨上去了。“现在也没有什么说法了,总之是越多越好,除了彩礼钱外,还要‘一动一不动’,即房子和车子。”   莘县张寨镇的郝先生给记者算了一笔彩礼账。小见面17000元,小见面男女双方及家长同意后,男方要随即再送11万,寓意十全十美。随后进入大见面流程,男方要给女方送66000元,除此之外,还要给女方的七大姑八大姨“送兜儿”,里面有烟酒烧鸡糖茶等,每个兜儿的物品在500元左右,光这些烟酒糖茶的价值也得近万元。结婚时,男方还要再买家具摆酒席,这些又得三五万,总共下来,不花20多万还真娶不上媳妇。“再加上房子和车,想想都觉得恐怖。”   “小两口”要订婚   自凑彩礼钱   聊城市民小徐和小高也遇到了麻烦事。小徐和小高原是自由恋爱,小徐家在聊城市,小高是阳谷农村人,两人马上准备订婚了,但彩礼钱却出了问题。原来小徐家只出六万六,小高家却坚持要15万,两个年轻人夹在中间很为难。   “我公公婆婆都在聊城上班,给我们在聊城买了房子,再拿这么多彩礼钱有点困难,但我爸妈说嫁闺女是一辈子的大事,不能被人看不起,现在15万的彩礼在村里已经是最少的了,其实父母也是为闺女好,这些彩礼钱毕竟还要再给我们。”小高说。无奈之下,两个年轻人凑了10万,小徐父母又拿了5万,总共凑够15万,总算过了这一关,双方父母都觉得符合自己的意愿,都很高兴。   儿子娶回媳妇   父亲打工还债   记者了解到,因为高价彩礼,很多农村家庭背上了沉重的债务。“有的家庭娶媳妇,都得贷款,有的还是高利贷。”莘县的一名村民陈先生告诉记者,他们村的一户人家娶媳妇,女方要了28万,一口价。娶回媳妇后的第二天,老公公就外出打工去了。“不出去有啥办法,靠种地的那点收入,猴年马月也还不上彩礼钱。”   “农民种地一年挣不了多少钱,娶个媳妇要搭上半辈子的积蓄,谁一下子也掏不出来那么多钱。”除了彩礼钱,再给两个新人盖处房子,少说又得花10万。陈先生说他们村的不少家庭都贷款。“和城里人的房贷、车贷不同,一些农民为孩子背上了彩礼贷,想想都很心酸。”相关的主题文章: